报两个wl...跪地求问defer admission成功案例！

已经wl了好久了，昨天今天又是两封email说还是wl...但是已经想好去duke msem了，所以...也没有所以了...

我我我我现在纠结的是 现在想defer到明年Fall入学！！发邮件给小蜜，小蜜说 ：

Unfortunately the Graduate School only allows students to defer if it is for one of the following reasons: health issues, visa issues beyond the student’s control, or military service. Please let me know if you have any other questions.

这种情况我应该怎么样弄下一步呢！！？我想defer的原因纯粹是想做做ra享受生活顺便等等蓝喷油...小蜜说是graduate school的规定，那我是应该找graduate school argue吗？还是找director直接argue？ 应该怎么argue会合适一些呢？？有没有兄弟姐妹学长学姐自己有经验或者什

补充内容 (2014-4-2 09:42):
发现wl选错了，不是stat/biostat，是金工...

补充内容 (2014-4-2 09:43):
又发现帖子尾巴被截了...最后那句的意思是 身边的朋友如果有这种情况成功的也求分享经验TT

补充内容 (2014-4-2 22:56):
发了个email问小蜜谁是老大，小蜜回说 I talked to someone in Graduate School, unfortunately +上封邮件原话...应该找谁找谁找谁TT